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Thursday, April 3, 2014

Some People Need A Head Slap .....




Some people in this fandom need a slap...

Right upside the head.



This is a video of Rob supposedly arriving at the Chateau Marmont after attending a wrap party for Life at the Den.

           

The tabs show you a picture of The Den. They then show you Rob, Dean and a brunette woman driving a car (you know the dipshidiots pounced on that right?) supposedly away from the Den and into Chateau Marmont. They make sure and show you the Chateau Marmont sign so you're sure to buy into all this. And we know he is leaving and not arriving for the wrap party how again? We know this was even from the wrap party and not the previous night when they were done filming how again? 


The dipshidiots were wetting their pants over this. 


"He's staying at the CM! He's not with Kristen. HAHAHA!"


That slap upside the head is coming at you fools. 

 Listen up. Just because he attended a wrap party for Life does not mean he is not with Kristen. And again for those who are clueless ...


NO he is not living or staying at the Chateau Marmont. Him and Kristen have their own place to live and  that's where he wants to be. 

With the mother of his child to be. 


That part kills the dipshidiots. They will make up any excuse rather than accept that fact. 



  And speaking of excuses the ones for Rob not rushing off to his new home in England were hysterical.


"Rob has interviews Thurs and Friday and then he and his parents will be going back to his new home in England."

"Rob and his parents have a christening to attend and then they will fly back to England."



Double slap! 



 I give you mystery woman number 1,000,002.  It could be more. I've lost count of their desperate attempts.



This is according to the dipshdiots the new love in Rob's life. Yep he cares so much about her he 's making her drive instead of Dean so he doesn't have to sit next to her. ! Now that's love!


You would think they have learned by now but no they still keep trying. Even after they have lost EVERY time they try.


Bitch slap coming at you and well deserved!




 @realjulesstew: Words to live by. Thank you Kristen and crew you are a constant inspiration.


Kristen's mom Jules  posted this pic and the dipshidiots took it to mean something it didn't


" Kristen gave away the trumpet Rob gave her! They aren't together anymore HAHAHA!"



And you know this how again? Do you know where this pic was taken.? Could be in Kristen and Rob's new house for all we know. Or Kristen's office at Libertine Films.





Sneak attack slap! lol.






There is a blogger out there who says she doesn't want to be dragged into our drama. She wants to be left alone. But then she goes and attacks us on her blog. She doesn't have enough guts to call us out by name. That's not her style. She says tick tock tick tock lol. Well Rose (yes I have enough guts to call you out by name), you're right time is running out. On you. 


Who in the hell do you think you are? Simply because we believe in something positive you want to attack us. Why are you so worried about what we say or think to be true? I'm sick and tired of the holier than thou bullshitters who think they are better fans than anyone else. 



 Sit down and shut up Slap!




The tabs have multiple personality disorder at the moment. Hollywood Life needs to seek professional help. 

First they say Rob and Kristen are back together and in an open relationship.



Oh wait forget that. Rob's hooking up with Katy Perry.

  What drugs are these people on because I want some. 

No they are not and never have been or ever will be in an open relationship. 
Give it up on the Katy crap. She's denied you multiple times. Take the hint.


You're irritating the hell out of me slap. 




 Now for some good news. 


Maire Claire UK updated Kristen's profile.

Although most of us know Kristen Stewart as Bella Swan in The Twilight Saga, she has actually been a working actress since the age of eight. Born in 1990, K-Stew, as she's affectionately known by her fans, admits that she has never been comfortable being the centre of attention and finds her huge fame hard to deal with. Neither she or her Twilight co-star Robert Pattinson have ever confirmed they're in a relationship but it's common knowledge that they have been dating ever since they met on set. As a notoriously private couple, they are rarely photographed together, much to most people's disappointment!

Funny how they never say ex or put it  in the past tense. Present tense. As in still are .


This is coming soon.






Rob looks happy to be home doesn't he.

Those glasses he has on  look familiar...

  

Now according to the dipshdiots anything they swap  glasses, clothes, caps are all comped to them so they have two of everything. 









Say cheese!


Gonna miss Dennis Stock Rob


One more for the road. Can't wait for this movie. I think it's going to be a favorite of mine.



Thats about it for this time and remember ladies.....



         

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Unknown said...

K is mia. Rob is mia. He is not going to sit in la when he could be with k. He Is not working so he doesn't have to be away from her. He may go back to la here there for a meeting or to promote something but he is in nola majority of time. Where is k? Where is r? When thhey disappear sametime mean they are together. Just like r disappear when k filming sils and k disappear when r in london in dec filming qotd.

Janie said...

Teresa

She is in NOLA. Did you not see picture of her with red hair on RD?

Unknown said...

Yes jane I m the one who told everyone about that pic. Where is r? When k went to nola for au. R has been mia at sametime.k was mia last week of March so was r. K mia early April so is r. We only seen one pic of r on march 31. He could have left nola to go to la for that day and then return to nola. The point is r is not going to stay away from her pg while hes not working. Do anyone know what sue is talking about? Why she sad? And going offline.

Sue from Holland said...

@Tempest, maybe it's the wrong reaction but your comments always make me laugh. You really know how to throw a punch. Ouch. I can see them crawling away under a big rock after your tongue lashing, haha.

@Sue Morris, I understand your reaction. We defend the ones we like/love and there is so much mud slinging that our blood seems to be a bit on the boiling side lately, so we tend to react maybe a little to fast. At least we have the maturity and respect for each other unlike some.

Hell, are these haters tedious or what? Phhh. I can picture them going nadina nadina, running around the playground pulling other girls hair.

Sue from Holland said...

@Sue Morris, come on you girl don't let the shitasses get to you. We are above them. You know how much loved you are here and on DIDY.
They piss me off or really make me laugh but they sure don't get me down, absolutely NOT worth it.

Unknown said...

Sue my advice to u is to come off twitter and stop reading negative comments. They make u feel bad and tear u down. Why do that to yourself.

CC said...

Wow. Some people are REALLY over invested in being a hating troll. Researching someone who posts on a blog is called stalking, you creep!

yarialice95 said...

It's okay Sue Morris, I know you meant no harm and it's good to be protective of the ones you love, I hope you feel better.

Unknown said...

Good evening to all you lovely Havenettes, HKN,Mama Nails, hope you have had a dood day seen the pic of Kriosten shes looking good,Well done Vernier on your post last night you hit it on the head,loving that Rob and Kristen are being Ninjas even though they shouldnt need to be, hugs to you all, take care.

Lisa G. said...

Sue Morris - hope you are feeling better.

Morning Coffee said...

suemorris:

Listen up my sweet lady, you did nothing wrong, you spoke from a place of total frustration and made a mistake. No one is mad at you, disappointed in you, or harbors any negative feelings for you at all.

We have literally been plagued by the little imps and demons that feel the need to insinuate themselves where they are neither wanted nor needed.

That is how they have the only fun in life, as their lives are so very limited.

If you need to step away for a little while you can, but think of how much we would miss you...you are not punishing them by taking yourself away from us, we are the ones who will be punished.

Don't you see how much you mean to us? Come on sweet sue...bring your smile back here and the hell with the evil that comes from the haters. Don't give the devil his due, when he sees you sad it makes him dance with glee.

One last thought not just for you susie...

It is extremely easy to get caught up in arguments with the likes of those who stop by to leave their crap on our virtual floors.

It's nothing more than a game to them, because the truth of the matter is they really don't give a rat's ass what we say or do. There is probably nothing in this world they really do care about....with the exception of causing trouble wherever they set their sites.

One day their ugliness will catch up with all of them....they are just too stupid or too blind to see how they are only damaging themselves.

I expect to see you here later sue, don't disappoint me.

MC

Tbell said...

Afternoon

Sue m'lady hope you feel better.

I bet Kristen is lovin her hair...

Tbell said...

Funny story...

Sitting here watching League of Extraordinary Gentleman and my grown up boys walk in to move my sons big appliances to his new home. Tom sawyer and Alan quartermain are on the ship shooting targets in the ocean and my middle son says "isn't that the dude from Into the Wild?" My youngest son says "yeah I think so." I dont say shit to see what they'll say because I've already imbd'd it and know its Shane West who looks alot like Emiele H. Anyway...my oldest says "yeah that was a really good movie and that Twilight girl was in it also." And then my youngest says "yeah she was hot in that movie.." and then they go on to talk about the Emiele H character and what they liked about the movie lol. Im sitting there the whole time thinking my boys are 20-24 and they thought Kristen was hot in that movie but never mention Twilight. Rob was 21, same as a my boys, and he apparently thought the same damn thing. Lol

Annie said...

Ok.......Just got in, it's a bit cooler outside than I thought but nice out nonetheless. Could've used a warmer jacket though.
--------
Sue Morris: I think you've cried and wallowed enough. Get up, wash that face put on a little blush (adds a little glow) and get to the business of joining us here.

Have you had a cupcake today? No day is so bad it can't be fixed with a cupcake. :) :)
Chin up lady.

Annie said...

Tracybell: I like that story. :)

Unknown said...

Morning Coffee, your words made me cry a bit more but made me smile .Thanks for understanding how I feel, just so frustrating to hear lies about nice people. I swear that E. sounds like the famous fat Annie from Hollywood lies. Not our sweetie Annie from New York. And I do hope that darn bridge is open for traffic! I think we need to see Susie hitting the HIGHJUMP circuit trying for a 6 Ft. jump right now--over and definitely out looking for chocolate pecans and macaroons for dinner. Not to forget those lovely cashews, toasted and salted, covered in dark chocolate. Hitting the nuts.

Annie said...

Sue Morris: There you are. :)

Girl Scouts were out selling cookies. Trying to be so good with the box of samoas I bought. :):)

Tbell said...

Annie
:) making cupcakes soon to take to sons new house for a party. Making the strawberry ones but not with spelt lol. My boys would use them for target practice. If it even hints of healthy looking they wont eat it lol. But my chocolate ones I use organic cocoa powder and unprocessed organic sugar so thats gotta be healthy, right? Lol

Deceptively chilly here also. Hoodie weather!

Annie said...

Tracybell: Your son's a homeowner.......Congratulations. :)

Let us know how the cupcakes came out.
So many ways to make things healthy and not lose it's deliciousness. :)
I had Gluten-free cupcakes recently, wouldn't have know it if I wasn't told beforehand.

Morning Coffee said...

There she is...our sweet sue is back where she belongs, right here with the rest of her haven sisters.

Chocolate pecans you say....hmm sounds mighty damn tempting...I may have to make a goody run to the store in a bit.

Annie no one can be good in the face of samoas...they are delightful.

Tracy...laughed at your boys...yeah Rob thought Kristen so hot he flew half way round the world just to meet her at the audition and that's the beginning of a magical love story.

Tbell said...

Annie
Spelt flour is gluten free and makes really dense bread although I have to add guar gum for volume. And even though I dont have a problem with gluten spelt is 1000 times healthier than wheat flour just tricky to bake with!

Tbell said...
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Tbell said...

MorningC
Hey there...there was something about her in that movie that appealed to men is all I'm gonna say lol. And yes enough appeal for Rob leave his old life and begin a new one imo.

Annie said...

Morning Coffee: One row of five already gone. No apologies. Haha. :):)
Samoas are my favorite Girl Scout cookie.
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Tracybell: I imagine baking with spelt flour would be a challenge.

Annie said...

Tracybell and Morning Coffee:
Didn't Rob say he only tried out for Twilight because Kristen ( the actress from Into The a Wild, whom he had a crush on) was cast as Bella.

Morning Coffee said...

Yes Annie Rob certainly did say that. I maintain as silly as it may sound that when he saw her on the big screen his soul recognized it's other half.

Yes I am a romantic lest anyone had any doubts.

Tbell said...

Annie
Yeppers that's true!

Tbell said...

Annie
Yeppers that's true!

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Unknown said...

wtf.. a number of hours ago one of our haters posted printscreens of our comments to HKN's last update from her cousin.
What is wrong with people?!

Sue Morris sending you a hug and love from afar.

Tbell said...

Rk faith
Go to where that is posted and screen copy it. If the hater is a livejournal member report it to livejournal through their support contact. Thats what I did.

Im not really surprised though but so what? She is only proving to everyone what a sad life she has.

Annie said...

Morning coffee and Tracybell: All so simple. :):)
---------
RK Faith: Well, if they're going to do that I vote we make our comments much more interesting. :):)

Tbell said...

Annie
So true...I imagine running marathons and baking with spelt are pretty boring.

Ill start...
Hey did yall know I do porn? Its a side job to pay for my hardcore gambling addiction.

Unknown said...

Tracybell - it's on tumblr. I don't know what to do on tumblr.. I don't have a user there, a fellow fan sent me the link. Maybe mama nails knows?

Anyway.. I agree with you - she's only proving her inner hate.. and I believe she'll learn Karma is a real bitch.

Tbell said...

Yep rk faith
I guess anyone who had a tumblr account could report her to tumblr but prob wouldn't make a difference. Tumblr openly allows all types of porn. Which I like since im a porn star! lol

Unknown said...

Hey y'all. I broke down and bought mini cookies and cream cupcakes today at the store. They really hit the spot.
I hope you're dong alright, Sue. We're all glad you're here with us. How are you MC, Pookie, MN, Tracy, verni, and the rest of the group?
Can we please have a "sighting" of Rob in NO (it's almost like we're looking for Big Foot)? And I hope we get some really good shots of Kris.
XXOO

Annie said...

Tracybell: LOL.

Morning Coffee said...

Girls I vote we don't waste any of our time on the dregs of society, bottom feeders...let them live in their own sick worlds..where hate rules and common decency doesn't exist.

Personally I wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire..but hey that's just me.

when it comes to these idiots I've dealt with alot worse in my long life...I've built an immunity to skanks.

Annie said...

RK Faith: The only thing she's proving is her panic and desperation.

Morning Coffee said...

So Tracybell do tell more about your chosen profession...I'm intrigued..

Gigi I am absolutely outstanding today how about you sweetcheeks????

Annie I vote we pick one troll a day to befriend...we can each write to them...invite them for a sleepover, stroke their egos and tell them how worthy they are....

you know make absolute pests of ourselves, just returning the favor perhaps?

felicity said...

can i say that i DON'T want set pics of kristen?? we've had so many from still alice. i just want her to be able to work without pap intrusion.. sorry if you don't like that, but i am honest.

Annie said...

Morning Coffee:
Haha :) How about we do it in alphabetical order.
I think we have enough names to start a troll list. :)

We might need to get HKN's permission though since her way of dealing with them is to delete their pathetic attempts at relevance.

Annie said...

Felicity: I agree.
Isn't it amazing though that she got into NOLA and had a full week of rehearsals without being papped.
I hope she is able to film her scenes in peace. I hope for a closed set.

Unknown said...

Tbell - I knew you looked familiar..]
if you're a porn star than I'm a porn addict..

Felicity - I'm with you 100%. Don't want them bothered while they're working anymore. Some peace and quiet and non paps..
maybe just a fan sighting (no pics!) of Rob in NOLA.. like Gigi asked :)

Morning Coffee said...

felicity...I understand how you feel. Maybe if they are on a closed set it won't happen..although the chances are slim.

Annie...in thinking it over not even I am that gracious. It's so much more pleasant pretending they don't exist.

I'll be off for a while have to finish cooking and then spend some time with my honey.

Tbell said...

Morning C
I like how you think.

So I do twilight porn. Im always bella and I do E/B porn only. I would never do B/J porn. One time I was Alice but the alice/jasper characters were into some kinky stuff so I stick to E/B porn only. It pays well. I have an extensive collection of sparkly dildos also lol. It keeps me financed so I can play the slots at the local indian casino.

So what do you guys do thats worthy of being cut and paste and gossiped about? Lol

Annie
Come one...with all that cupcake talk I know you have some dirty secrets lol

Lisa G. said...

For the commentor who wants proof of who Tempest is I think that that person should provide us info on who they are so we can confirm who is behind their account name. Real name and validate where they live and work. Only fair to me.

But Tempest is too classy to even now down to this person's request. Love you tempest.

Tbell said...

Rk faith
I just thought of something...if someone opened up comments and started reading they'd be like wtf? Well...let's give them something to talk about lol.

Ok cupcakes im off to bake and do a party. Chat at you haven mavens later!

Annie said...

Tracybell:
Life is like a box of cupcakes. :):)

Tbell said...

Annie
Im in the middle of adding my strawberries but I have to ask...did you make that up? Or is someone already using that? Im in love already ♡♡♡

Annie said...

Tracybell: Haha.....I just made it up.
A play on.......Life is like a box of chocolates. :)

Annie said...

How are the cupcakes coming along?

Tbell said...

Omg annie these cupcakes are so good and that site has a lot of good recipes. Thanks for posting. And nothing beats adding fresh strawberries. And life is like a box of cupcakes is one of the best names ive ever heard! I wonder if that phrase is trademarked? Lol
Thanks again. Everybody should really try that recipe on the site annie posted. They also have a blueberry recipe im gonna do also.

Imagine. ..

Getting a box of cupcakes that says on the lid...

"Life is Like a Box of Cupcakes...

*Open the lid and printed on the inside flap*

...you never know what you're gonna get"

And it contains 6 different cupcakes every time lol.

You just started a cupcake business!

Unknown said...

Hi everyone on Havenettes! I just got home from babysitting my two nieces. So what have I miss here?

Euclid said...

Just popping in to say all your cupcake talk corrupted me... Unfortunately I'm within a 5 minute walk of both an organic bakery and an amazing cupcake store.

On the pretext to myself that I was getting cupcakes for all the young people invading my home tonight for NCAA and NBA basketball watching, I took myself off to Dlish and purchased Red Velvet, Dark Chocolate, Salty Caramel, Chocolate Marshmallow, Vanilla Covered Chocolate cupcakes among others... I don't know how I'm going to break this to everyone because I had strict instructions not to get anything without their input. So far all I can come up is "HKN made me do it."

Tracybell - loved you eavesdropping on your sons' discussion about Kristen in 'Into The Wild' and your porn career talk is hilarious!

Unknown said...

As soon as I can balance with these canes, I am going to make strawberry cupcakes tonight. And with the famous non sugar it tastes pretty good. Teresa, I agree that Rob is going to be nearby Kris, no matter what. Thanks for the recipe Annie, my love! Tracey, we need triple X pictures or it isn't happening, sorry, but I bet you could! I really do love the baby girl, Robbie, with her footsies up in the air! Kristen with red hair again, whatever will the gossip hags say? She beautiful no matter what color hair. This is the ideal time to visit New Orleans, any later and you will be rather warm. I have family and close friends already under a/c. This is because they are below sea level, just like Houston and Galveston, major humid and hot soon. Hope her shoots are some inside. Good reason to shoot now and finish sooner! Most of the bars are not a/c in the Quarter, so would head for Royal where there are some bars in Hotels that are a/c. I love this city, but the bugs are a big pain. They grow bigger in Texas of course! On the beach at Galveston, you can see clouds of mosquitoes that look big enough to carry you off. Not so many in NOLA. My husband and I had part of our honeymoon in NOLA staying in a Marriot was nice, we were there in February and March, and as this is a Catholic city, every closes on holy days. The food is wonderful and so are the people, so this makes up for the rain sprinkles every day. Have a good night everyone!

Unknown said...

Tracy - I write E&B Twific porn, so I might seek you out for some details.
MC - I'm okay, but I can tell that I need to get back on my anti-depressants. It's been two years since I've taken them, and my emotions have been all over the place.
I have red velvet cupcake mix, you all, and I have the distinct feeling I'll make some soon.
Earlier, I was thinking about the women who are DESPERATE for R&K to be apart. Then I had to laugh over their desperation. It's a waste of time really because the man only has eyes for his green-eyed beauty. They are SOUL MATES. Is it that hard to see? I shake my head over how some people can't comprehend that fact. Nothing and no one can change the love they have for each other. I had to get that out tonight.
Hope everyone is having a good weekend.

Tbell said...

Gigi
Lol...Hmmmm I read inordinate amounts of twific porn so I might have to check you out lol.

Im at my sons house celebrating his move home and into a new home and sneaking peeks here and at sluts and trying not to get caught ;).

Annie
Strawberry cupcakes are a hit!

Verni
Whereart thou V?

Barbara said...

@Creightonmann.
re your questioning the distance Tempest travels to her work place.You obviously have never lived in Australia. It is nothing to travel three or four hours to one's work place. There are Doctors, Vets, Dentists Nurses Teachers who do it every day.Do you have a clue how far a Farmer travels every day to check on his stock?.
Tempest, you are adored, loved and respected. you are golden.xx xx.

Morning Coffee said...

Oh my girls...Are any of you still here...I know I said i would be back early but my honey was needy tonight. He gets clingy every now and then bless him..needs my undivided attention...I think it's that he has a birthday coming up on the 29th of this month and he is having a hard time wrapping his head around 75.

Gigi...it's all the stress from the move my dear...you do whatever you need to do to make you feel better and don't wait till it gets worse.

By the way I assume yo are on ffn.
since they changed their format I can't figure out how to use there search engine..I still have the part that says author or title but there is no search button?would love to read your stories.

And I leave reviews, unlike may others. have you ever read any of Caro no"s stories? she is an excellent writer.

Euclid: You gave me a good laugh...it doesn't take long to succumb to the siren call of cupcakes.

Tracybell: Every body wants your porn movies, they are literally flying off the shelves nationwide.

Just wait til Verni hears about your latest venture.

Oh interesting tidbit...the cretin that was by early today calling tempest a liar about her profession???they opened that account yesterday on live journal just to ask that question???

Well the dumbass is stupider than stupid..I googled Tempest's info just like she told him?her?it? and guess what right underneath the first one he read in Queens land was our Tempest in Perth right where she said.

So if the dumbass comes back feel free to tell them to learn how to use google...I swear some folks couldn't find their own ass in a shit storm.

Sweet sue you be careful on those canes and trying to bake. don't need you falling.

Oh and one more thing...Gigi..you and teresa are so right whereever Kristen is Rob's not far behind.

Morning Coffee said...

Barbara...check out my new post
very enlightening.

Unknown said...

Morning Coffee, What new post? I like to see it.

Morning Coffee said...

Arleen the one at 7:53

Barbara said...

@MC. Oh just read it.These trolling brainless dunces really should be put in the stocks,with a big notice saying "I am a fool feel free to hurl stale eggs at me," they are a bunch of melon heads.As I often say when I see the tripe the spew, "may your ears turn into arseholes and shit on your shoulders".

Morning Coffee said...

Barbara best laugh I had all day.

They truly are beyond stupid.

Unknown said...

Morning Coffee- Great job on your 7:53pm posted. I love it.
As for the rest of Havenettes, I am going to bed now. Keep me posted. My two nieces have wore me out. I love babysitting them. And they are fun. Well, good night! Keep me posted. Hugs to you all. Night!

Unknown said...

HKN- Sweetie, please recycle some really stupid comments from the peanut gallery that think they are smart but aren't. We really are not as mentally disabled as to want to stir shit to smell it stink. Good lord, what a lot of happy horse shit. Always the assholes at night!

Morning Coffee said...

that one is a horticulturist

DR. Gillian Claire Lawson perth has her own practice with a colleague I believe...

Are yu all that desperate to catch someone in a lie...your all looking in the worng place.

have a nice night.

Unknown said...

ANYWAY, thanks Annie for the cupcakes, I love strawberry.

Morning Coffee said...

Susie don't let them aggravate you they are so busy have a meltdown they can't function properly...but then again I am sure alot of them never did.

Morning Coffee said...

Creighton and Marie let me say this one more time..first Creighton did you need to hide your identity to the point that you opened an account just yesterday to pose your question?

She is listed as Dr Gillian Claire Lawson in Perth just like she said obviously...She has her own private practice complete with address and phone number...

learn how to read google and stop trying to nail jello to the wall, you are way out of your league.

Morning Coffee said...

Tempest I hope I haven't overstepped my bounds here If I have I beg your forgiveness...

It is very hard to swallow the ignorance that has plagued and attacked you and HKN and MamaN thinking they know all when they really know absolutley nothing including how to use google.

Simple minded idiots.

Morning Coffee said...

Creighton I don't mean to be rude but what I would like to know is simple why are you addressing your questions to Tempest here at HKN.

Go to her blog DIDY and ask her whatever you want. You will get an answer much faster.

I found it instantly and yet you spent all day?

Go to DIDY

...a fan said...

I come here from time to time. Enjoy this place and DIDY for what it is - banter about Rob and Kristen. Enjoy RPI a lot, mostly for her strong defense of Kristen and at a time awhile back when it was hard to find. Blogs are forums for the author's thoughts and opinions but at its core they are about Rob and Kristen. Can't we all just get along? The common bond is the same.

Caroline said...

… a fan. Wise words.

yarialice95 said...

I can't find her either MC, I don't know what I'm doing wrong :(

Barbara said...

Why are you people feverishly searching for Tempest's background.?I would like to know why??.You must have become board checking the in's and out's of a fishes arse.If you like searching try searching for your brain, that will keep you busy for a long, long, long time.

NOLA girl said...

Havenettes - whassup?!?!?! Ha ha!

It never fails - I miss 2 days and miss nearly 250 comments!!! Ouch!!

Our little ninja snuck on in to NOLA with barely a peep - nice, huh? Her hair is lookin good for her role. I think Kristen has friends down here and people tend to leave her alone when she visits. That's one thing I'm really proud about NOLA - there are a lot of movies made here (along with recent episodes of NCIS - HKN, nice tie-in) and the locals pretty much leave the celebs alone. Unless you're Sean Payton or Drew Brees!!!!!!

Ya'll - thanks for the nice comments about the city. April is normally fabulous down here, but it's been overcast the last couple of days. The oak trees are blooming as are the azaleas everywhere. I actually killed a snake on my front porch Thursday a.m. (I nearly passed out/ puked, but I did it!)

Wow, let's see if I can remember everything - here goes:

First: Havenettes - please stay away from the negativity. It will bring you down if you focus on it. The world can be a decent place or it can be a shite hole. It all depends where you spend your time. Don't let people you don't even know bring you down.

Saw on Drudge tonite there were Earthquakes in OK today...Tracybell and sue morris - you okay??

Vern - verrrrry nice diplomacy. Combined with your detective prowess, you have an amazing skill set girlfriend!

Party Bus - come on down!!!!! You are welcome here!!
I will share some sad news with all you Neville Bros fans. They have sorta split due to age. Katrina took a major toll on Aaron. He lost his home, went to Nashville for a while, his wife's cancer came back and won, and he is now on my side of the lake. Something from Katrina aggravated his lung condition, so singing gigs are getting few and far between. Every once in awhile I see him in a local grocery. One of the other brothers, Cyrill, sorta lost it after Katrina. The Nevilles always, always closed out Jazzfest, but not anymore for about 3 years. Troy Andrews (Trombone Shorty) now closes out Jazzfest.

Pookie - so happy to see so many posts from you again!!!

Debbie - I see a rheumatologist and a pain management specialist. I have pain from a serious car accident in 2000. I had sick parents for 11 years. After my dad died, my mom went into a free-fall. I was launching a new drug for the company and had an asshole for a boss. I went into a major depression. My GYN put me on Cymbalta. It is amazing for pain, but I was still having issues with sleep and hypersensitivity to touch. One of the advantages of being a drug rep for many years is knowing who to go to for recommendations. I got the name of a rheumatologist and he added another drug to the Cymbalta. It has made all the difference. I also saw a therapist - I was overwhelmed with all that had happened to me, my parents, my in-laws, and of course Katrina. I hope you can find all you need to help you with your quality of life. Don't give up!!

Gigi - I LOVE you went to USC. Jadaveon will go #1 or #2. LSUs Odell Beckham will be a 1st round pick. Not as many LSU players going pro this year as last. Yes, we are BIG TIGER FANS at our house!

I hope Rob can join Kris down here for some fun and a little romance!!

I'm sure I forgot to answer someone. I'll check back in tomorrow.

Havenettes, chillax and enjoy the weekend! Tracybell and sue morris, hope there was no damage from the "shakes"!

Love and hugs to each of you!

Unknown said...

Morning to you all on this fine Sunday feeling good so i think im gonna have a good day yah,Loving all the positive comment being said and im so glad Rob and Kristen are both MIA still, i still have that feeling about our wonderful mum to be that something is brewing hope im right like many others,well hugs to you all enjoy the rest of the weekend take care

Unknown said...

Rob and kris are both mia. Do u reaaly think he would be away from k when hes not working. Hes in nola. K was mia last week of march because she was in nola doing rehearsal. Who else was mia last week of march. Thats right. Rob pattinson because he was in.nola then. He came back to wrap filming for one day then back to nola. R may go back and forth to la for a meeting or something but he is in nola. Why u think both he and k are mia. If he had been in la all this time. H e would have been paped. Or seen.

andreana said...

I would love to be in NOLA..... I went there a few yrs ago and it was the most wonderful city..beautiful...and a bit bipolar...( stayed in the french quarter)...LOL. the difference in the quarter from nite to day is amazing! I had a cajun cab driver going back to the airport..we had time before our flight out, he cut off the meter and took us on a tour of areas you might not normally see.. Best trip ever....best cabbie ever... food was unbelievable people were friendly atmosphere and whole city is beautiful......loved NOLA !

Tbell said...

Good morning

NolaG
No shakes here for me. Those happen in central OK far away enough for me. Im from Tulsa originally and in 1968 my dad was shaving and one hit hard enough it shook his shaving cup off vanity lol. I was a baby so I don't remember lol. My dream vaca includes JazzFest, black keys, food, beer and lawn chairs lol. One day...

Andreana
Great story!

Tina and Arleen
Morning ladies

Teresa H
Im with you. Where ever K is, Rob isn't far behind. Business is business, but from what he's said in interviews family comes first. My opinion :)

Janie said...

Just a thought.

Could Tempest be running her blog as an experiment and we're all guinea pigs? Maybe she's doing research to see how irrational and crazy some people can get?

Sorry I didn't think of this on April Fools Day.

Anyway, maybe something the trolls should think about before spewing vile hateful things.

I love this blog.
No disrespect to Tempest.

Janie said...

MC

I also found Tempest. She has no reason to lie. I guess the troll is trying to prove a point that if she's lying about her profession she's lying about Kristen being pregnant. Just another attempt to prove Kristen is not pregnant. I tell you we are dealing with teenagers.

Sue Morris have a good day today as well as all our Havenettes.

Flowergirl said...

I find it interesting that Enna would post a comment about Tempest on HKN's blog and not her own. I wonder why she would do that?

Annie said...

Morning.
Tempest has never said that Kristen is pregnant, if I'm recalling correctly she has said she doesn't care one way or the other.

It seems to me that the attempt is to discredit Tempest and in doing so also discredit all of those bloggers and others who she supports or speaks up for.

Morning Coffee said...

Goodmorning Havenettes....

I hope today is a better day for all of us..I am sick to death of all the little ass wipes coming here and dumping loads of their crap.

They are mentally disturbed individuals..that can be the only explanation for their continued insane rants.

They spend all their days opening and deleting accounts..just to leave hate filled messages.

Sick puppies the whole lot of them.

Girls I am taking the rest of the day away, I have had enough BS for awhile and need the down time.

I'll check back tonight.

Enjoy the day, I fully intend to.

love and hugs to all my girls. MC

Annie said...

If you'll notice it's not about Kristen's stage of pregnancy anymore, suddenly that's not important. It's all about slandering some of the most vocal supporters of Rob and Kristen being together.

Unknown said...

Good morning to all the Havenette! Happy Sunday! I am cleaning my house and doing laundry today. Hope you all have a great Sunday!

Janie said...

Annie

You are so right. Tempest never said Kristen was pregnant. I guess I got carried away with my theory and forgot who I was talking about.

Sorry.

And sorry to Tempest.

Janie said...

Enna

I was talking in jest. Duh!

And yeah, address Tempest on her own blog. Leave us alone.

Hatersknownothing said...

Cretin,Marie,and Enna.If you even attempt to post someone's private information such as address or phone number on this board you will be immediately reported to blogger.Tempest has already explained to me why you won't find her on Google so give it up.

Happygirl said...

If anyone here give Enna Tempest name blog I´ll get very angry. Enna want to make trouble. That´s all. Enna can ask her friends.

Unknown said...

Annie, yes you are right, it would seem slander is being renewed as the new thing on the block to hurt posts that believe Rob and Kristen are always together. Attempting to discredit, lying about their activities, and slandering professionals, is causing some people into question. What happened to going to movies for fun and loving to watch the newest dresses be shown by the stars? Hate has caused most of the posts to just print gossip. I am really glad that HKN, DIDY AND SRWN have continued to just print positive blogs, and not allow others to dictate to us.

Flowergirl said...

Jane...Tempest has never once voiced her opinion on whether Kristen is pregnant or not, on her blog or anywhere else. She has made her position clear...neutral. As far as her lying about Kristen's current state of affairs, she has nothing to lie about. She has never directly addressed it. Tempest must be pretty sick and tired of people putting words in her mouth...I know I am.

Tbell said...

Hkn
Is your email listed? Live journal just contacted me and wants additional info on abuse report I sent.

Tbell said...

Annie
You hit the nail on the head. Did you read madmedusa last jight. People like enna are f*cking crazy.

Janie said...

Flowergirl

You should read the all the posts before you start slamming someone.

If you will look 5 up you will see that I apologized to Annie for making a mistake.

We don't need drama here. You should read all the posts instead of skipping over some of them.

Tbell said...

Hkn
Livejournal support is wanting more links to the accounts I reported. How can I do that.

Tbell said...

Jane
I not defending flowergirl but sometimes when I post a 3 paragraph comment 6 or 7 others post at same time lol. This could be what happened.

Flowergirl
Dont take offense for whats going on. Imagine if this was happening at didy. I have no idea what tempest does or doesn't do. Let this play out and lets all let hkn and Livejournal take care of it.

Damn, It was so peaceful here yesterday with our talk of rob, Kristen, sweetP, nola, cupcakes, porn and spelt flour lol.

Annie said...

Flowergirl: Jane apologized to Tempest as well.
Tracybell: No I didn't but it's obvious that's what is going on.

Anabelle said...

Hello everyone,

I just wanted to pass by, I don't know if it was posted yet or not before in the comments but i found this from Nicole @RKfans on twitter :
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BkgKLZAIUAEaYYX.jpg

Thought you might be interessed in it . No need to analyse everything just look, nobody can blame us for that. :)

Hatersknownothing said...

Tracybell

LiveJournal? Do you mean blogger?

Hatersknownothing said...

Never mind Tracybel.I understand now why you said LiveJournal.

Annie said...

Creightonmann: You went after Tempest using her name and the fact that her comment said Psychology department in Perth but she NEVER said what facility or even if it was a hospital/university. You assumed it was and put links to Perth University and to a listing of PhD's in Perth with the same name.
You couldn't find her and ultimately determined that she was a liar and a fraud because your Google search was unsuccessful.

Hatersknownothing said...

Tracybell

All of cretins comments even ones that were deleted are in my email.

Sherry said...

Yes. I am new to comment on both blogs. Just thought she was being careful or could someone from outside be hacking the blog?

Tbell said...

Hkn
Just sent you email. Thanks

andreana said...

Enna and her other two underlings that post here are now trying to invade someones personal life?... These nutballs need to get a grip .. How crazy for these people to be soo obsessed over R/K that they would try so hard to get Tempest's personal information...No wonder Rob and Kristen are trying so hard to stay hidden. Fans like enna and the other minions are dangerous........and super creepy!

Flowergirl said...

Jane... I posted my comment after I had a chance to read yours. After all, there is no way to reply directly here. And BTW, I was not "slamming" you. I was only stating a fact and voicing my opinion. I was under the impression it was OK for one to do that here, without someone picking a fight.

Janie said...

Flowergirl

Instead of trying to explain yourself a simple I'm sorry would have sufficed. We do that here.

Tbell said...

Ok Flowergirl
I should have stayed out...sorry...was just trying to stop another unnecessary misunderstanding when people use defensive words for no reason...im out.

Another reason to not respond to trolls. Its like a domino effect *sad sigh*

Flowergirl said...

Jane...just so you know, I did read all of your comments and I'm sure Tempest appreciated your apology To bad I saw them too late. It would have saved the both of us from having to endure all that "drama" I created.

Janie said...

Flowergirl

Let's just move on.

Flowergirl said...

Jane...I would happily say "sorry". If I felt I had something to be sorry for. In this case I do not.

Annie said...

Tracybell: Hold up....I need a cupcake report. :):)

Janie said...

Flowergirl

I wouldn't have expected a sorry from someone like you. I'm just saying let us just move on away from the subject. I am done.

Flowergirl said...

Jane...agreed.

Flowergirl said...

Jane...you said you wanted to let this go, and so do I, but what exactly do you mean when you refer to me as "someone like you"?

Janie said...

Flowergirl

You don't post here regularly. You come to view then when you see something you don't agree with you pounce. I know you are from DIDY and when you saw "Tempest" smoke started flying. You did slam me. The regulars here would have apologized and we would have moved on. If you were a regular you would know how we roll.

Now I am really done. No more responses from me.

Happygirl said...

Ladies the trolls get what they wanted that we now attack each other. Please don´t let allow that. Don´t let the trolls win.

Annie said...

Annabelle: Thanks for the comparison pic. :):):)

Janie said...

Annabelle

I also thank you for that comparison. Just proves our point doesn't it?

Flowergirl said...

Jane...you are right. I am mostly a lurker here, have stated before that I do not consider myself to be a "Havenette" and have posted mostly light hearted, innocuous comments. I have never once "pouced" on anyone, and you are doing me, the Havenettes, and HKN a disservice by accusing me of doing so

Unknown said...

good morning dear friends of the haven
our day will be exactly what we make it
so i put a HUGE batch of Cafe Du Monde beignets on the table hot outta my little black frying pan here along with a great big pot of that wonderful chicory coffee with lots of milk for a delightful café au lait all for anyone who'd care to drop in
here's the powdered sugar-shaker oops shoot i dropped it a cloud of powdered sugar all over everything! oh well still, delicious!
hmmm i shook so much on my pile of hot aromatic beignets that now it's all over me!! hey somebody pull up a slightly sticky chair and help me eat these things, will ya??!!
yum yum mumble mumble
--pookie

Tbell said...

Jane
Omg strawberry cupcakes are my new addiction and huge hit with the fam. I made 3 dozen regular size and didn't bring any home so thats a win in my book!

Its cold and sprinkling here. The rain is much appreciated but its like getting pissed on by a dog, its wet but not satisfying lol. We need 3 inches overnight for the next month lol.

Def not running weather but if I was training fir a marathon I guess id get my but out and run....not lol.

Annabelle
Love loved loving the collage you posted. Very telling indeed.

So wats up in havenland ladies?

Tbell said...

Flowergirl
Was gonna stay out of it but this was janes response to one our own...
Annie

You are so right. Tempest never said Kristen was pregnant. I guess I got carried away with my theory and forgot who I was talking about.

Sorry.

And sorry to Tempest.

Flowergirl
I think you need to let it go since this was never about you in the first place. Please.

Annie said...

My mother loves country music (The Country Music Awards (ACM) are tonight.......This song is one of her favorites:
Seems apropos somehow.

http://youtu.be/3XAxsS3IwXY

Annie said...

Tracybell:
So the cupcakes were a hit. :):)
Did you use the frosting?

Tbell said...

Annie
Not the cream cheese one. I have a really good vanilla frosting my family loves. Actually these cupcakes could stand alone they are that good. I'm gonna try adding more strawberries next time or lemon to get a more tarty taste? Any suggestions?

Annie said...

Tracybell: The 1 and a1/2 cups strawberries is the puréed measurement. Did you measure fresh strawberries as 1 and a 1/2 cups?
You can add one small slice of lemon peel to the mixture but remove it before you bake them for that lemony taste.

Flowergirl said...

Tracybell...you are right, as well. Jane's comment was not directed at me personally, but her referring to Tempest the way she did, brought out the mama bear in me, just as I'm sure it would have any of you, had it been HKN. Sometimes I think it's best if we play in our own backyard, where we know we are accepted and welcomed for who we are and what we have to say.

felicity said...

okay.. i am a friend of tempest.. know her for a long time and i know exactly, why there is NO information to be found about her with google!

you won't be successful, dear visitors, we know who she is. you can try to slam her as long as you want, at the very end, you will gain nothing.

..

sunday is almost over here, dear havenettes, so i keep my fingers and toes crossed, that tomorrow will be a good day for all of you

Unknown said...

Trying to catch up.. so many comments, this place is buzzing.

I asked for RK (not EB) fanfic recommendations last week and here I see we have experts - I'd love to know what you girls recommend - porn or no porn,I love it all.
Thanks!

Tbell said...

Annie
Yes I used fresh, pureed it then measured. I thought about using lemon zest but I'll try your suggestion...thanks!

Didn't know acm are tonight...thanks...and my mom loved kenny r also lol.

Flowergirl
You are welcome here any time and you know that. And yes I understand mama bear feelings. I think we all are protective of tempest also as you have read the many supportive and protective comments from many commenters here. Matter of fact rae and maybe a few others from didy come here and post time to time and are welcomed with open arms and are adored. So I guess im shrugging my shoulders still wondering wtf happened because I really enjoy your comments and always have.

yarialice95 said...

I can't believe some people would spend a whole day searching for a person they don't know on Google, to prove what? Do they think they are the fandom FBI or what? The more I think about it the more deranged it sounds, was that person going to call Tempest, stalk her and her family? Good Lord, What has this fandom come up to? I look Tempest for less than 5 minutes out of curiosity and thank God I didn't find anything, I hope those reports get to something, if people think they can stalk someone without consequences because this is the Internet they're crazy.

Unknown said...

DAMAGE CONTROL PLEASE! I believe I have found a very credible point. Divide and conquer from an individual or plural individuals that do not want positive happy information published about Rob and Kristen. Now who would basically find happiness is the three pro Kristen and Rob posts were warring? Who stands to gain the most? Certainly not a pro Rob and Kristen post. I believe everyone might want to give it some thought and realize there are those who earn millions just by printing the names Rob and Kristen, and lose millions when they do not . In-fighting is never productive no matter who started it first. And, trying to justify a lie is easily found out as their footsteps can be traced right up to the doorstop. A new look should be attempted to correct what I would call cat fights, if there is any integrity at all there. posts are for sharing, not for a stupid war of words. However, we will continue to protect and defend HKN, DIDY, and SRWN, if needed.

Tbell said...

Rk faith
Whats fanfic without a little porn? Lol.

Someone mentioned Paper Cutouts last week and im rereading it...sigh...what happened to all the authors of 3 years ago? Are they all publishing now?

Morning C
Love how you love Cara No. I love her because even though she publishes she continues to write E/B fics. Adore the woman...

Rk faith
Since you love R/K fics do you know what happened to the fic Quiet by ever6. It was never finished and she never wrote anything else and I loved her writing style.

Flowergirl said...

Tracybell...thanks. l might even consider dipping my big toe into the water that is the HKN comment board, after your response to my last post. As for WTF has been going on between Jane and myself...you might want to take that up with her.

Unknown said...

Tracybell - Sadly, I have no idea what happened to ever6..
thanks for the paper cutouts mention.. so good! I'm always looking for new stuff.. Gigi??

I'm really confused about something -
in the boob comparison pic Annabelle posted (thanks btw!)we see a fuller version of the picture in the hair salon's ig. Did they take down the fuller picture and post a cropped one where you don't see her chest?
Seems odd..
here's the one that's been on their ig for 2 days -
http://web.stagram.com/p/691504296167385108_269968497

Where's the one from the comparison from?? In all the site mentions of Kristen's new hair color we see the cropped picture, w/o her chest.. Maybe I missed something but isn't that strange?? Hmm..

Tbell said...

Rk faith
I saw the full version last night and thought wow booooobies galore lol. I have no idea if it was cropped and posted like that on purpose in the beginning or how the full version came about. Probably an answer found on twitter?

Paper cutouts written by twistedcoincidence a collab fic with astilbe13? She also write Unraveled Knot which is another goodie...all her fics are awesome!

This is making me go back to my fave list and anyone remember Ikiss and the cocky and the cougar? Mama mia!

Tbell said...

Flowergirl
You're welcome :)

Janie said...

Tracybell

I'm sorry you got caught up in this misunderstanding. I sincerely apologize. I made a simple mistake and was thinking about HKN and her belief Kristen was pregnant and I got confused with this troll trying to acuse Tempest of lying like they acuse HKN of lying. It was truly a mistake and when Annie reminded me of the truth of Tempest I immediately apologized. Maybe next time I'll just keep my thoughts to myself. I'm really disgusted by people always trying to read between the lines when you post something. I've had enough. I'm laying low for awhile . Thanks for being a friend.

Unknown said...

FLOWERGIRL- everyone likes your posts very much. please check out my point at 12:05 this date. I truly believe in what C.D. said this date. Not exactly the same and on two different boards but he has not varied his opinion in several months and does not often comment. Too much time and effort spent on wasted nonsense, and for me, time is very precious, as I have little time to waste, so vile comments about Tempest or HKN, and few really know these two personally, tend to tip me right over the top. We do have posters who know Tempest and actually are knowing some facts about Rob and Kristen, but I have no doubt this post is literally picked apart by HL because HKN cannot print what she does know, totally, for good reason. I have always thought the pro-Rob and Kristen posts were studied by the HL crowd. I also think Rob and Kristen think so. Things that make you go---hum. But, it would seem that being protective as we both are is not necessarily appreciated. But then, nobody really cares about what I think but me! HKN and DIDY and SRWN are truly open and non judgmental posts usually, at least they are cheerful!

Unknown said...

Jane, you know that I have been just where you are and it was just a simple mistake, as I have been told, everyone makes bloopers! So, just don't let anyone make you feel bad, we all walk into those just really tiresome revolving doors that keep on going around and around for what? to prove what? I am seriously going to have to train myself to not react to hateful posters who come to start wars. I know you understand me, we all have to pick our fights, and I dislike fights a lot. So, don't feel badly ok? love,Susie

Unknown said...

HOLY COW HKN! What we have is a failure to communicate here! Could you please clean up AGAIN for us? Thank you in advance!

Unknown said...

Hey you all. How is everyone this Sunday? I had to take a small nap this afternoon. Maybe all of the stress of the move has finally caught up with me.
Funny how we have yet to see a picture of Rob in the past few days. Perhaps he's with Kris in NO. That wouldn't tax my imagination much.
MC, I have read some of Cara No's fanfics. They are well written and captivating. Here is the link for my author page on Ffn, and I have a totally different name.
https://www.fanfiction.net/u/2258064/edwardsouthernbella
My favorite of my stories is Southern Charms and Chicago Shadows. I have a few wips, but I need to go back and clean up some of my completed fics. Writing is one of the ways I manage my anxiety disorder.
I love our haven and I love the way we stand up for each other.
How you're doing fine, MC, Nola Girl, MN, Verni, Tracy, Pookie, and everyone else.

Unknown said...

Evening ladies,@sue morris glad to see you back hugs to you, hope you all had a great weekend now for another week ahead, take care my lovelies.

Vallie said...

I think my 22-year-old son would get a hoot out of knowing that my divulging his love of strawberry cupcakes got Annie to post an amazing recipe and now a bunch of the Havenettes are baking, craving and chatting about strawberry cupcakes:-)

I'm sure a lot of you have seen the video posted by themadones4. It's so disturbing but she did such a great job shedding a light on how awful & abusive the paps are and how brave & strong K has to be on a constant basis every time she goes in public. There is some footage there that I had never seen that is so physical. And we only see small glimpses. The paps would never post the parts where they're at their worst. What they have had to endure would make me want to hide my baby too!

Pookie - glad to see you're back and in good spirits! I always enjoy your posts.

felicity said...

seems some people still don't get it.. i would recommend to click onto the link of DIDY on the main page. you will find tempests explanation, why YOU couldn't find her anywhere.. she did NOT give you her information..

and WITH GOOD REASON!

and another thing.. i don't know where other havenettes are writing comments, except DIDY because i can see them there and at mamanails tumblr.

if someone is writing comments at RPI i have no clue about that, because I DON'T GO TO THAT BLOG. I DON'T CARE ABOUT IT AT ALL!

i DON'T IGNORE IT, i simply don't know about it.. *shruggs* and it is also NOT MY BUSINESS!

don't assume anything, when you don't know where we are visiting and where we are reading.

Unknown said...

VERN, TRACEY, please go to SRWN, I am not smart enough to make comments easily, she has had some day! The assholes are just really LARGE ASSHOLES.

Tbell said...

Jane
You're welcome and I make mistakes all the time and I come back and say oopsie I was wrong just like you did. It happens and we move on just like you said and thats why I love it here :)

Now where the hell is Verni? Im gonna have to send out an missing person report on her ass if she doesn't check in soon lol. She'd straighten all our asses out lol.

Tbell said...

Felicity
Bj925 is talking about my last post to Rose where I called her a two faced lying bitch in feb. Before that I havent posted a rpi since last sept or oct. Lol. Im not afraid of anyone. I have nothing to hide lol.

Vallie
You sure started something with your cupcakes lol.

Morning Coffee said...

Ladies I am back after a beautiful get away to the beach...it's very soul satisfying to sit at waters edge and Just appreciate God and his creation.

It's also a wonderful place to sort out your thoughts and wrap your head around logic.

I am one who is mostly an observer, not much of a talker, I find when you are talking you can't really hear what anyone else is saying, or doing for that matter.

Friends always ask me what's wrong when we get together..and look at me doubtfully when I say there isn't anything wrong. One would think after fifty years they would now know this.

It's amazing the things you learn by being an observer, you learn to read people with uncanny precision.

while I know the mentality these days is far different than it ever has been, I find it very hard to swallow that there are that many mean and shallow people in this world.

That's not to say everyone is walking around with angels wings, but llikewide not all are walking around with horns and pitchforks.

So over the last few months the otherside has launched a full blown attack on certain individuals from three very successful blogs...all pro R/K blogs.

HKN...DIDY....SRWN primarily since these are the only places I visit, they will be the only ones I use.

It started out as attacks against HKN's commenters for believing that Kristen is pregnant...Some of jumped on that when HKN mentioned back when. Others of us already suspicioned it but watched and waited silently.

SRWN joined the rest of us believers after the chanel Dallas show. She now painted a bullseye on her blog like HKN.

Poor Tempest in defense of people she befriends made several comments to the ones trying to cause dissension and the bullseye had another target.

I had first thought it was all the haters and teeny boppers, etc. launching personal attacks against commenters and then they moved on to attacking blog owners.

Why? because they don't like us or don't like what we have to say? It doesn't make sense if you think about...

They open and close accounts to make a few comments then scurry off like roaches when you turn the lights on.

There were a few at first and the number has grown and keeps on growing...a few disgruntled non fans? possibly a few.

But I think in reality this is a multi point attack on these three blogs...because of the way they have grown and the support they have fomr fans world wide.

Who would want to shut them up and shut them down? There are a few truly venemous haters out there who have been feeding lies to the rags over the years.

But who really stands to lose the most if the truth comes out? The rags.

Naturally people would see the lies they willingly and wantonly told about Rob and Kristen and countless others over the years.

Certainly they would lose some credibility and probably more than a little revenue otherwise known as blood money.

I could be wrong...but it makes more sense then a few mal- contents, dropping by to tell us what to think and what to say.

HKN said a slap upside the head, I think they all need a good swift kick in the ass. No apologies for my thoughts.

For all my sweet ladies here at HKN...We live and love and sometimes life and or people try to drag us into the muck and mire that is their lives.

No more from us please...they them romp around in their own filth with no help from us.

Unknown said...

Hello ladies....seems like our visitors are getting a bit restless...LOL...and a bit desparate, but there's nothing new in that...that seems to be their constant state of being.

But I wanted to answer RK as for the difference between the original pic of Kristen we got from the salon the cropped version wasn't cropped to hide her boobs, it was cropped because it was originally posted on Instagram and that's the standard formatting for IG photos. You don't get a choice...so it was either going to crop out her boobs or her head lol...

talk to you all later!

Unknown said...

hi Gigi dear
would you care for a tasty hot fresh beignet and a steamy frothy cup of café au lait? i made them just like they do at Cafe du Monde in the Quarter in honor of K being there right now

sorry everything's kinda sticky i dropped the powdered sugar shaker and it just went everywhere

see? haha my napkin's stuck to my hand *shaking hand with paper napkin stuck to it slightly irritatedly**

i invited everyone to drop in and have some but they seem to all be running around worrying about some silly thing or other

they may be full of cupcakes i don't know

sue morris mentioned she might try one except for the calories but since they're just virtual she could have one here you have two--
mmmm mmmm*talking with mouth full** 'dis iss gudd
--pookie

Unknown said...

Hey Pookie!! I love, love, love beignets. When I was down at Cafe du Monde years ago, I ate tons of them, but I walked it all off that day. NO is so dear to my heart, much like R&K. I wonder how they'll celebrate her birthday. My oldest son is asking for mew to make chocolate chip muffins for the morning, so I have to get busy with that in a few minutes. Loved every word of your post, MC. I tend to sit back and listen at times, but there are times when you have to speak your mind. Love reading anything you post. I miss going to the beach so much - I could always clear my head by the ocean. It's home to me. XXOO

andreana said...

Oops! The undesireables are back!

Skip.....delete!

yarialice95 said...

Wow! So according to our resident idiot Enna the official troll of the Haven, just because a person has a degree in psychology said person can't go on their Internet, I didn't know that having a degree made you so different from other people, I didn't know that you could diagnose someone over the Internet thank you for telling us that, I will change my major to psychology and make tons of money without leaving home diagnosing people like you with irreversible idiot disorder, I also didn't know that self defense was now called attacking people that's super interesting to know Enna you're so clever and full of wisdom. Stupid idiot.

Unknown said...

@yarialice95...*standing ovation* my dear! Great comment and soooo true!

Vernier said...

Good evening Havenettes!! I see the sweetheart of the bitch bunch is back. Enna how are you this evening? I'm sorry we can't bend to your will, but can we agree to disagree and you start your own blog so you can save the world from us? I mean I don't really understand where all your anger and hate come from but I'm sure if you had a place you could have total control over it would help. Will you give it a try for the peace of us all? Coming here and pretending to be something you are not to insult and malign us is just wrong. I don't think you hate as much as you wish you had the love and camaraderie that we all share here. What you must remember is we love R and K for their careers and who they are. We are not in love with either one to the point we think they may see us, fall in love, and take us away from all this. Not happening. When that finally sinks in you will understand us and maybe see what we have as a possibility of what you could have if you pull the spit and vinegar out of your message.

Unknown said...

verni...love love love your comment! so good!

Vernier said...

Hey MC, MN and yarialice95 love what you all had to say. I think we know who is living the fantasy and who she is fantasizing about. It is so sad. They choose the negative hate filled side inside of coming into the light. They don't understand they can have different opinions than us here. Just don't bash and all would be good. A healthy argument is good for the soul as long as you don't sling insults and piss.
Love you ladies!!!

Vernier said...

Mama trying to do it with kindness but the bitch is still in me. It just takes less energy to be nice than to scream fit at them. Hey your blog is kicking Mama. Love it. I was not so nice on some of my responses there to your anons. Sorry but no one attacks Mama and we sit idly by. Loves ya lady!!!

Cryssielee said...

Hi ladies! I've been lurking off and on throuout the day. I see it's been a hopping' day with the usual suspects. :( Sigh...

I am baffled on the need to constantly post a difference of opinion on the subject of this blog. It reminds me of someone who just won't take no for an answer; Someone who constantly irritates (teases, belittles) to get their way or subtly demand their way of thinking is the right way. I know a couple people like this and underneath....at the root of it all, they are truly insecure people. I try to remember that when they start trying to get my goat.

I know it's hard to ignore someone who is so viciously loud, but ladies...let's not let them get us down.

By the time I'm done typing this, I'm sure I will have missed a few posts in the feed. But, I do hope it will be a quiet night for all. Good night from the East Coast!

Vernier said...

Trace where you be at friend?!!!

Tempest said...

@Vernier i think i might have hit reply and you got my entire post lol sorry :)

Unknown said...

BWWWAAAWHAhaaaaahahahahahahh!!!!
yarialice95: "irreversible idiot disorder"
omg that is so freakin funny
thanks yarialice omg
have a beignet
hey vernie-- beignet? here Gigi have another and here's a bit more of that chicory café au lait
**still trying to get the napkin off sticky fingers now one is stuck to foot**
--pookie

Tempest said...

I am going to put something up and then ladies i urge you drop all communication with those purposely trying to cause trouble in a blog they are not interested in other than to cause as much disruption as possible. HKN is forwarding all posts with my content and the malicious intent of trying to look me up, not only that, but others (their names and links to their accounts) further trying and posting other people's names and locations on this public board, which was an INVASION of their privacy as they did not ask for this kind of stupidity.

I have also compiled a list and forwarded my complaints to Blogger and the posts, that were directed at me, including the names and locations they put up and marked it also as an invasion of those person's privacy as they did not ask for their identities or locations to be posted on a public board.

Let me make something very clear to those crying that 'I did nothing wrong' that i put my name up for everyone to see...yes i did but if i asked you to put 'your hand in the fire' would you do it? The fact that you went investigating to find me, not only that but put up various searches and what you came up with - how stupid are you?

The fact that you did this with malicious intent to try and discredit me as a person on the internet, a person you don't know and trust me you don't want to know me not after the childish, immature behaviour you have displayed on here and tried on my blog too - shows your complete lack of common sense. To then suggest i don't exist that i have 'stolen and identity' Oh dear...grasping at straws is all i can come up with because the need to vindicate your little group of haters beliefs, is just so, so sad.

Tempest said...

the fact that you claim you don't read my posts and yet pour over them with equal delight, proves also that you have a serious problem with needing to be offended and needing the attention.

As for stealing and making up credentials, really that might work in your little world were you are still trying to struggle through life and make some kind of career for yourselves, but in the real world you go to school, you got to University and you then spend several years in both a Hospital capacity and in a clinical capacity where you continue your training and every day you are still learning because you never stop learning. But i suppose that sounds too much for those who feel that logging into a blog they don't like and wasting several times of their day posting with the lack of respect we have all come to realise is just a little child in the corner throwing a temper tantrum.

People in my profession don't post in celebrity blogs? um this isn't a celebrity blog, this is a fan blog, created by a fan and has fan content. This is not E! News or People so sorry, don't know where you get off telling people where they can post, i suppose that comes from the notion that you have been told several times to leave and you refuse but then again that's the child mentality 'ask them to do something they don't want to do and they dig in their heels and refuse'

Ladies it's best to just simply ignore and allow myself on my blog and HKN here do what is needed to do to report these people. They can cry that they did nothing wrong all they want but they did do something so stupid, so childish that they will be investigated for it, for both LJ and Blogger are very interested in what they have done.

You looked for me and boohoo you didn't find me that's because i am not dumb enough to put up my details on the internet, i have children and it's a security risk but i suppose you now know that as certain ones have made their online accounts private. Pity you didn't do that 'before this mess' as Blogger has your details anyway, private or otherwise as you have to register everything with them and they can access your details that you have chosen to hide.

Euclid said...

Tempest - Well said and will follow your lead.

Vernier said...

Tempest I love your entire post. What you say is very true. They went to far this time. They always teeter on the edge but this time they stepped off. Good on ya for doing what needs to be done! Blogging is suppose to be fun and a place and way for like minded people to come together and express that mutual love or like. Not spit bile and vinegar and hate. I am glad that no one is bowing down. We will ignore and let you and HKN handle your business as you both see fit. Love ya lady!!!

Euclid said...

Pookie Lewis - What a brilliant idea - thank your very much - now that I've had my fill of cupcakes, I'd love nothing more than a tasty hot fresh beignet and a steamy frothy cup of café au lait!

Tempest said...

I'm glad i made you frustrated you fell for the oldest trick in the book, i put up enough for you to go and hang yourself with and you did it with epic style.

As for the names you chose to post up for all to see...that was your biggest downfall. To actual look for someone they need to have disclosed their personal information that is on public record. My personal identity has nothing to do with anyone but those i disclose it to. Pity you didn't think about that when your nosy opinionated persona decided to try and find me.

As i said, that is called malicious internet behaviour and you will (along with the other names provided) be found and prosecuted for it.

Oh and Enna before you go barking off that 'shouldn't you be at work' i have what is known as 'holiday time' its time off per calender year you get for working for a living, so like you and your little friends, i have all the time in the world to post in here...all day...if i want to *waves*

Morning Coffee said...

Tempest excellent comments and I know for one I will not be replying to any of them in the future...I apologize once more to you for getting drawn into last night's debacle...My intentions were honorable in trying to defend you, someone I admire greatly.

I have learned a bunch of things I never waanted to know about the absolute mean sporited people that hide behind their computer screens.

Good Luck to both you and HKN and I hope they pay for their poor judgement and malicious intent.

Morning Coffee said...

Verni....Pookie invited us for treats beignets and Chickory coffee with lots of creamy frothy stuff on top...Let's go...Pookster be there in a bit.

I think T is watching the CMA's vern.

Tempest said...

Dear little child i don't particularly care if you don't believe me or not i don't have to justify myself to you or to anyone you ran with the other day. And yes you can be prosecuted for trying to obtain a person's identity, that's how so many get theirs stolen and used fraudulently online (look up the laws in school if you don't care to understand)

Cyber stalking is also against the law and many countries have added it to a list of what is considered 'malicious internet behaviour' again that can be found in the same place. Blogger whom you have an account with make this a huge issue as they see this as malicious intent and those who purposely go out of their way to try and obtain a persons personal details can be seem as questionable as to what they wanted it for. So, you and your little friends have been forwarded to the right people, for further investigation. i suggest you pay attention more in school and less time pouring over your rags that tell you the absolute truth.

This is a fan blog to do with two actors, this is not a celebrity blog it's a fan based blog, again you need to look up the difference in what constitutes as a celebrity blog - Celebrity blogs cover news and current up and coming events - photo-shoots etcetera - HKN uses her blog to post up whatever she feels is relevant. I wouldn't come under the top 100 celebrity blogs out there as it's a fanbase not a news blog.

Robert Pattinson Life, Kristen Stewart News are known as a 'celebrity' blogs, because their content is 'work related' and personal interest of the actors only.

Have a nice day i'm here all day to respond to your little stamping feet demands

Vernier said...
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Tempest said...

MC don't worry about it, i am just so sorry so many of you got caught up in this whole stupid immature mess, but then what do you expect from people who come in here to try and disrupt the easy going ambience in here.

As for Kristen being left alone Enna, why don't you do the same for Rob and stop running with the idea he is hooking up with anyone who looks at it. It makes a more simpler plan or maybe that's why you get ticked off by people in here - they are still attaching Kristen with Rob but are using it in a more 'personal manner' you dislike intently?

I asked others to ignore the idiots in here but hun i have all the time in the world for your blustering.

Vernier said...

MC and Pookie on my way. I need that lovely break. I forgot about the CMAs. Dang it!! On my way ladies!!!!

Tempest said...

@Jane, if you are around, i accept you got a bit confused and i understand completely, don't be worrying about it lol :p

Hatersknownothing said...

Ladies

Please let's get back to hop skip and jumping. The little trolls are getting exactly what they want by you responding. They keep posting over and over again until they get you to respond. Ignore them until I get them deleted. It's what they hate the most.

Tempest said...

@HKN absolutely :)

Vernier said...

I am with you MC. I will stand down.
For the Enna stalking comment. To go see a celebrity working in a public place and be respectful of that person is not stalking but to hunt down a person who is not a celebrity but a private individual by way of the internet is cyber stalking and a federal crime. Enna may choose to not believe until they knock on her door and they will. It is a crime and they do prosecute. Tempest's info is not for public consumption. Enna can try and draw us in but it won't work. We are finished with her. The law will do what they do and she will learn to leave people alone. We know the difference between watching a celebrity work and going on a blog insult, malign and then stalk it's owners. That is as close to a threat as you can come by internet. You have belittled and talked nastily and derogatorily about this individual then you try to find them? What good would you mean them? None. It would be perceived that you were out to hurt them or their family. Not good. So instead of pulling at very short straws that bear no meaning to your situation you better lawyer up and leave folks alone.

Hatersknownothing said...

Tempest

You of course have the right to defend yourself! Their little tirade didn't work out as well as they hoped :).

Vernier said...
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Vernier said...

Ok ladies I am off to bed!! Shit done got deep and the shitters are scattering as they should. Have a great night ladies. Love to you all. Have a great night or day depending on where you are in the world. Peace out!!!

Hatersknownothing said...

I'm going to remind the trolls once again that even though your comments are deleted there is a copy of them in my email.Rest assured you even think about posting someones address or phone number you will be reported.

Tempest said...

@HKN; opinions are what makes this world go around, but to force your opinion on someone else, means you have to go into their personal space to do so, and that is just silly.

This blog and other blogs do not force themselves into other people's comfort zones, if you don't like the content, don't read it. But the fact that what i see is a growing number of hostile people whose sole purpose is to come in here and become incredibly abusive from the onset and then complain when people in here respond back in kind.

Manners and respect go hand in hand. If you don't want someone to be hostile to you, don't do it to them in the first place - it's as simple as that. The members in here have been targeted by individuals, who have come in here for the purpose of attack, they don't come in here to pose a valid argument, they come in to cause disruption, to make fun of yourself and others and that is immature behaviour. Hence i see them as nothing but high school bullies and no sense of what the real world is all about - god help them.

Personally attacking me, calling me out, discrediting my user-name on online persona. Disbelieving who i say i am - that had nothing to do with why i posted my annoyance on my blog or in here, it's the insidious reasons behind what they did that intrigues me.

I wasn't born yesterday and it's been a LOOONG time since i graced the halls of High School or University in a study capacity - so the childish behaviour the mean girl spirit rolls off me like water.

Morning Coffee said...

Ladies I am off to bed...have a good night and sweet dreams.

Thank you Tempest...you are very gracious.

Hatersknownothing said...

Tempest

That's exactly what they remind me of.School yard bullies.They think they can do what they did on gossip cop and the awful truth boards. Harass people into leaving. Not going to work here.

yarialice95 said...

That beignet was delicious, thanks!

Enna's comment was the dumbest thing I've read in my life, I couldn't help myself, I'm sorry HKN back to skip and jumping.

I don't know how any would doubt Tempest is a psychologist she sounds like mine I swear to God if didn't know that mine isn't a fan of Rob and Kristen that I'm from the same country as Tempest I would swear they're the same person, maybe that's why I have crazy amounts of admiration for you Tempest (among other reasons).
The more I think about the more deranged this whole thing sounds, What were they thinking when decided to do that? I hope they get what's coming to them.

NOLA girl said...

Que pasa ma Havenettes!!!!
Andreana - thank you for the NOLA story. I love Charlotte! Been there twice - biz and personal - and it's a beautiful city!

T-bell - glad you didn't have the 'shakes' - specially with your son's new home and yours on the way. Best weekend of Jazzfest is the first one - it's still bearable temperature wise. For some reason, the second weekend is normally a hot mother! Anytime you wanna come down, let me know.

Pookie - beignets should be a food group all their own!!!! So glad you seem to have rallied a bit from the mudslide tragedy and sounding more and more like OUR Pook! It's getting close to my bedtime, so no chicory for me my friend.

Mama Nails - WTF was it with all the asshats on SRWN today and yesterday? You are a better human being than me. My mantra (most of the time) is if you don't have anything nice to say about R&K - go away! You are too good for the stupidity. BTW - more Nathan Fillion puhleez. He is adorable :)

Tina W - how are you honey? Debbie? felicity?

Teresa, Vern, Arleen - hope you had a great weekend. Annie - you are killing me with the cupcakes. I need to make the strawberry ones - never done that before.

Everyone else, thanks for all the wisdom, info and detective work. Love to you all and a big hug!!! Havenettes are da best!!!

HKN - I hope there's some way you can nail the bad guys. I don't understand the point of being hateful. My great-aunties used to tell me all the time when I was a little girl "God don't like Ugly". I think they were right.

Oh Gawd, letters instead of numbers :(

Unknown said...

NOLA!!! Thank you.... I trash the more vile things they say but sometimes I just need to show some.... Of what I get in my inbox! Luckily the GOOD still far out weighs the bad in it's GOOGNESS and in it's quantity.

But it does get frustrating answering the same thing over and over and ppl asking things I cannot know! Lol

As for Nathan Fillion! Your wish is mine to grant! I do love me some Nathan!! Teehee

Oh and I loved your comment to Andreana about Charlotte! I love Charlotte, I'm gonna be there Friday for the day.

As for all the asshats here, DIDY & SRWN... They be scared...VERY VERY scared! And maybe just maybe if they get us to shut up their nightmares won't come true! But we know their nightmare... Our TRUTH... Will be seen by the world...it's just a matter now of WHEN.

Good night and sweet sweetP dreams dear haven!

Mama

Unknown said...

Good night to all the Havenettes! I am going to bed. Keep me posted. Hugs to you all. Night!

Tempest said...

If HKN would permit me i would like to post this very interesting insight to 'internet trolls and cyber bullying behaviour'

http://www.kansas.com/2014/03/30/v-print/3376800/new-research-finds-that-many-internet.html

Here is the link for everyone to keep and below i have posted the entire article. Thank you to a dear friend for finding it.

By ERIC ADLER
The Kansas City Star
Anyone who’s ever encountered Internet trolls, those vile, racist, sexist and often profane people who gorge themselves on others’ misery, might have concluded they are psychologically disturbed.
That would be correct, new research suggests.

Cyber-trolls gleefully spew their “e-bile” using smartphone apps, online comments, texts or social media sites for no other reason than cruelty.

“It happens every night,” said Darla Jaye, a radio talk show host in Kansas City whose conservative views often serve as a lightning rod for trolls. “I get stuff on the text line all the time where people swear at me and call me the foulest names. … It’s easy to throw something out there when you’re anonymous. That is the thing about the Internet, especially about trolls. Most of these people are cowards.”
Perhaps so. But, according to a new paper by a team of Canadian researchers that has looked into the psychological underpinnings of trolls, they may be something else as well:
Sadists.

Yes, sadists. But not the psychopathic sadists who turn to actual physical torture or serial killing.
“We use the term ‘everyday sadist’ to emphasize that we are referring to sub-clinical levels of sadism, and not the more extreme forms that are seen in serial killers and criminals,” said psychologist Erin Buckels of the University of Manitoba and the first of three authors of the paper on troll personality in the February issue of the journal Personality and Individual Differences.

“The essential aspect of sadism,” Buckels said in an email, “is enjoyment of cruelty. Persons high in sadism gain some emotional benefit from causing or simply observing others’ suffering.”
In Kansas City, the issue of using the cybersphere for cruel intent rose again recently. The administrators at numerous schools — including Pembroke Hill, Blue Valley North and Bishop Miege, private, public and parochial — found themselves issuing notices or holding assemblies to urge students not to use a smartphone app called Yik Yak.
Likened to a portable bathroom wall, the free app (which kids say proliferated in recent weeks but has died down just as quickly) allows users to anonymously post anything they want about anybody and share that post with hundreds to thousands of other random users within a few-mile radius.

CONT...

Tempest said...

While many students tend to see Yik Yak as the latest goofy tool to razz friends (“If you’re a cheerleader, high school doesn’t count,” read one) or mock rival schools (“Entrance exam to Shawnee Mission East? Spell your naime”), administrators see it as a weapon for cyberbullying.
“As soon as I heard about it, I downloaded the app,” said Blue Valley North Principal David Stubblefield, who received complaints from students and parents. “... Yes, I was shocked. There were just really ugly things on it … anywhere from sexual humor to racial to religious.”

Although researchers delineate between cyberbullies and trolls — cyberbullies torment specific individuals and are often known by their victims; trolls like to cast their hurt about — they are linked by their penchant for cruelty.
In their troll research, Buckels, Manitoba colleague Paul Trapnell and Delroy Paulhus of the University of British Columbia gathered data from 1,215 individuals — split nearly evenly, half men and half women — based on questions answered on two online surveys.
Both surveys included questions about the subjects’ Internet habits, such as “How many hours per day do you spend posting comments?” or “What do you enjoy doing most on these comment sites? Debating issues, chatting, trolling, making new friends, something other?”

They also included statements from well-known diagnostic tests of personality traits meant to detect various levels of sadism: “Hurting people is exciting” or “In video games, I like realistic blood spurts.”
Beyond sadism, the questionnaire also looked for signs and varying levels of what are known as the three other legs of the “Dark Tetrad” of personality. Those are narcissism ( I have been compared to famous people); sub-clinical psychopathology ( payback needs to be quick and nasty) and Machiavellianism ( it’s not wise to tell your secrets).
Conclusion: Those who rated highest on the scales for narcissism, psychopathology, Machiavellianism and sadism — highest of all for the trait of sadism — were the same people who were trolls. Enjoyment of other online activities, such as chatting and debating, was unrelated to sadism, the researchers concluded.
“It seem like one of their great joys in life,” said Paulhus, “is to make fun of other people and to criticize their opinions.”

Paulhus said that trolls are often insatiably nasty. There is no reasoning with them. The more havoc they sow, getting more people to argue with them, the happier they are. It is that well-known trait that has given rise to the Internet advice: “Don’t feed the trolls.” Like ravenous strays, they just come back.
Over the last two years, Emma A. Jane, a lecturer in media and communications at Australia’s University of New South Wales, has been compiling and dissecting the vast range of electronic vitriol — whether by computer or cell phone — as it is directed at women.

In her paper, “Your a Ugly, Whorish, Slut,” published in 2012 in the journal Feminist Media Studies, Jane pointed out how e-bile directed at women frequently shared the same rhetorical elements: violence and misogyny.

CONT...

Tempest said...

“Gender stereotypes abound,” Jane wrote. “E-bile targeting women commonly includes charges of unintelligence, hysteria and ugliness; these are then combined with threats and/or fantasies of violent sex acts which are often framed as ‘correctives.’ Constructions along the lines of ‘what you need is a good (insert graphic sexual act) to put you right’ appear with astounding regularity…”

In her view, Jane wrote in an email from Australia, “gendered cyber-hate is not rare or occurring only in the fringes of the cybersphere, but has become part of the everyday online experience for many women.”
“I agree with the research … on sadism,” she wrote, “but I also think a lot of people are bored and simply running with the pack.”

One particularly pernicious form of e-bile known as “revenge porn” — in which one posts or sends sexually explicit photos or videos of another person to degrade or harass them — has become enough of a concern that two states, California and New Jersey, recently passed laws criminalizing the act. Twelve more states, including Missouri, have offered similar bills.

Compared with such acts, mere trolling seems tame.
Buckels said it’s still up for debate how much the veil of anonymity on the Internet actually fuels such behaviors ( Without the veil the Internet can provide, would they act this way?) or whether trolling helps vent it ( Thank goodness for the Internet, lest they cause physical harm).
“Some researchers claim that anonymity is primarily to blame,” Buckels said. “But, again, our research suggests that the picture is more complicated. Only certain types of people will act antisocially when they have the opportunity to do so. Most of the time, they can only fantasize about cruel behavior or watch from a distance without risking punishment. Direct action is far more risky, unless the situation is relatively anonymous.”

Buckels said that the anonymity of the Internet can do doubt provide a dark corner from which to strike. For some users, trolling may also offer the same outlet as do violent video games or movies, providing a dose of vicarious sadism as an alternative to the actual thing.

“Our research suggests that trolls also want to be mean to people in real life,” Buckels said. “Perhaps trolling online allows them to satisfy their appetites for cruelty without it creeping into real life.

“As someone recently suggested to me, maybe we should feed the trolls.”

Lazmeister said...

Wow Tempest that is amazing and very eye opening to read!
I cannot get into that sort of a head space so I cannot understand the people who feel the need to hurt others.
I'm so happy that the majority of people who do post on this site also cannot understand this.
Pookie I am in hysterics over here - loving the images you are portraying!
Again thanks all for a wonderful, if late, read for the last few days.

Unknown said...

DEAR TEMPEST AND HKN; I thank you and bravo! M.C. I agree with your assessment and our minds came out with very similar ideas about the attack on the three pro Rob and Kristen sites. POOKIE- MORE COFFEE, please. TRACEY- what about raspberry cupcakes? I simply adore blueberry! Back to snoozing, feeling much better about our blogs.

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